I've been on both sides of this.
To begin with I had a higher sex-drive than my b/f and did hate that he didn't appear to find me attractive or want to be affectionate. But now that I am a lot more independent and sorting stuff out I'm not at all interested in sex and I know he hates that!
For me, starting uni again and really getting my life in order stopped me even thinking about sex so what others have said about councilling sounds great (if your g/f would be open to the idea) and as she's starting uni maybe this will help her out?
From your side, I just try and get sex over with as quickly as possible so I can get on with sleep/work etc so I'm not sure how much help that is!
Well done on maintaining a long-distance relationship, that shows a lot of love in itself.
Good luck
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