Rob, I seem to remember you saying something in the past about your girlfriend having ED tendencies. Assuming that my memory is correct, I think that has a lot to do with what you're posting about now. She would already be pretty insecure with her appearance, and so she has probably convinced herself that shes not attractive and any time anything happens she can remotely attribute to that she does.
Long distance relationships are hard I think because so much of the intimacy of a relationship is gained from the day to day stuff. I agree with the above suggestion that little notes, gifts, texts etc may help. I know I have sentiments similar to your girlfriends, and I find that when my BF pays attention to me in other ways my feelings are reduce. Like for a while he made a point of texting me every day with some sort of affectionate text.
Hope you get it sorted out.
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