You've said that you live in a small town with out a lot of small towns nearby?
Then is it time to move to a larger area? Yeah the expense is going to be awful. Is there any way for you or your wife to use the internet to look for work in a larger area? In a larger community there will be people who are open minded and accepting of problems. They will see that you are working to find solutions.
I'm sorry if this doesn't help. Please know that I read your message, that you're being heard!
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