I've also been that girl, and its generally because I haven't been feeling the love from him for lack of a better way to say it.
Sometimes it feels like my boyfriend and I are just 2 friends who are sleeping together, rather then 2 people in love. It usually starts to happen when we aren't getting to spend a lot of "us" time together doing relationship-y non sexual things. When things get like this I still enjoy sleeping with him, it's just not as intimate as I would like, which can be upsetting.
I think mostly all girls, as much as they deny it, like romantic stuff at least once in a while. Candles, an indoor picnic on the floor, a surprise dinner etc can all help relight her spark if thats whats missing.
|