Ive worn quite a few of those T-shirts! I know EXCATLY what you mean and are going thru. Word for word almost.
I think its genetic programming and in my experience its the first signs of "nest building syndrome". Is she looking more thoroughly thru the Ikea and Habitat catalogues? Do you find the "lettings" page open in the newspaper?? IS she noticing just how messy you really are and how those new beige and chocolate cusions from John Lewis would "really brighten up this mess"?
Dude i was in a relationship for almost 10 years and for 6 of those years i was made to feel guilty for "having sex" with her. Ive had the "i didnt want to upset you" talk too, and; not being a totally insensitive GIT i didnt just go ahead and do it. Im sure you feel the same. She needs to know how upset you are. Dont mince your words. Tell her how you have been left to feel.
The rest is in the lap of the gods. Women are strange creatures. Cute and yummy but STRANGE!!!!!
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