If you find your counseller difficult to relate to you can ask to see someone else. This does happen now and then and professionals are used to it (I work in mental health). I had to do this last year with my therapist, it was so difficult to say that I had no rapport with her but I'm really glad I did. The woman I was referred onto is just wonderful, we have a very useful relationship and I'm having my last session with her next week. I can't imagine the mess I'd still be in if I'd never said how I felt.
Good luck. xx
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