First of all...Congratulations on 3 months SI free...that is awesome!! :D :)
Could you not wait until after her anniversary, maybe till this weekend? You don't have to tell her face to face either. Maybe write her a letter saying asking if she remembers your previous conversation and saying that you feel the time is now right for you to tell her your secret? Explain why you didn't before and why you want her to know now.
I think it is a great idea to tell someone. If nothing else you will have a new form of support and it may well bring the two of you closer. Don't freak out though if she doesn't know quite what to say to start with. It is a big thing for some people to understand, especially straight away. It sounds like you really trust her though so I'm sure it will be fine *hugs*
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