This is such an awful place for you to be in; I remember finding out someone I looked after started and that was bad enough. I agree with 'Crazy Rabbit Lady' I think the first port-of-call would be talking to her and if that doesn't work maybe talk to someone she confides in or is close to just to find out how you can give her support to stop her needing to do it rather than making her stop because other people think it's wrong.
PM me if you ever need :)
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