one of my great friends had her first child when she was 15. she dropped out of school, and later went to tafe(technical college) to do her HSC(yr12) equivalent, which she aced. she now goes to uni.
kids aren't the end of your life. but if you truely believe your not ready for this, talk to your doctor.
don't try to cause a miscarriage by drinking and taking drugs. it can damage you as well as the child and its not guaranteed to work.
you don't need the alchohol or drugs. i know you want them, but they can steal your life away, more so than a kid would.
exams can be sat at a later date, or even re-sat, boys will come and go until you meet the right person for you. even children, although not this one if you decide not to have it, can be had at a later date. but there is no way to regain the time spent so off your face that you weren't sure what was happening. and it is quite hard to regain self esteem and self respect that may be lost in those periods of no self control.
you can be strong, and you don't need to do these things. ask for some help from someone in your life, a teacher, a parent, a friend, or go see your doctor or make an appointment with a counsellor. there is no shame or weakness in asking for help or advice. there is strength in realising you need help and in asking for it. some poeple may react badly, but that is to do with their own issues, not with you.
take things one day at a time and know we are here for you.
take care
Annie
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