Some people just don't seem to understand
A nurse told me she felt so let down when i self harmed - she couldn't understand it had nothing to do with her, she wanted me to talk to her instead but didn't get that sometimes its not about that.
Self harm just seems to be one of those things that a lot of people just cannot get their head around, even those who are trained in mental health. I think a lot of people see it as a choice thing and think we should 'just stop' and find other ways of coping like everyone else.
I get a lot more understanding if i tell people i have depression, but as soon as i mention si many people distance themselves.
I have been told its childish and attention seeking even though i never show my scars.
I hope we can educate people and that somehow it will become less taboo and people will be more accepting.
You aren't pathetic or a loser, please don't think that, its more an issue of a lack of understanding.
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