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effervescence · 08-05-2008, 05:32 AM

i am in my 1st yr of uni and am worried about the exact same thing. i started seeing the uni student health counsellor about a month after i got here and she helps me a lot. you will find though that there will often be people around you, even if like me you don't make friends easily, you'll get acquaintences, and so that helps cos u're not actually on your own all that much.

also, holidays do actually come up quite quickly so it makes you concentrate on the fact that you are still connected to your family and friends, and you want to be as cut-free as possible for the holidays (this works for me anyway).

but the best thing to do is just take it one day at a time, keep up with the work as best you can without getting too stressed, and if you think u need some help, ask for it! uni counsellors have seen most things before.

08-05-2008, 05:32 AM	#2
effervescence tired Join Date: Feb 2008 I am currently:	i am in my 1st yr of uni and am worried about the exact same thing. i started seeing the uni student health counsellor about a month after i got here and she helps me a lot. you will find though that there will often be people around you, even if like me you don't make friends easily, you'll get acquaintences, and so that helps cos u're not actually on your own all that much. also, holidays do actually come up quite quickly so it makes you concentrate on the fact that you are still connected to your family and friends, and you want to be as cut-free as possible for the holidays (this works for me anyway). but the best thing to do is just take it one day at a time, keep up with the work as best you can without getting too stressed, and if you think u need some help, ask for it! uni counsellors have seen most things before.
effervescence tired Join Date: Feb 2008 I am currently:	Even as the stone of the fruit must break that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. There are only two ways in which one can live their life. One is as though nothing is a miracle, the other is as though everything is.