I dont either, i think part of it is that we have got so used to living and being comfortable with our negativity that anything positive or different to what we "know" doesnt feel right so we reject it because its unatural. I mean why is it different? i guess the truth is it isnt but we believe it to be different because of how the abuser made us feel-truth of the matter is we are no different and these things are right for both of us and everyone else, we just have to learn to believe it. *hugs*
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