Well I am going to the bank in the morning to see if they can help at all and my ex is finally agreeing to ring her once I've been to the bank. And he also realises that as painful as it might be for both of us, if he takes the spare room it's the most obvious solution to the problem atm. I guess I'll have to wait until tomorrow to really know whats going on.
Thanks you SO much for your support it really is kinda helping me out. Don't get me wrong I have friends who are all being really good over it, and my manager ust gave me a weeks holiday and said if things are no better and I'm still unable to work I can have another week straight after...which I might just take for the break even if things are sorted out. Before I go back I need to not be falling all over the place like a maniac lol. I'm gonna use this time to sot out a new job if I can and if she lets me keep the flat, then to tidy it and clean, because since he left me I haven't exactly done anything to it.
And if she doesn't then at least I have time off work to move lol.
Oh I really am not laughing about this situation but I have to start putting a braver face on if I am going to get through it.
I'm also going to dig out the contract tomorrow and have a proper read through it. So I know my options. And might ring the helpline at work because they give free lega advice to employees and might be able to help a lot.
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