To know if your ready, I think that it has to be something you want. Because in your heart you want more than anything to be better. But just because it's something you want, doens't mean you are necesarilly ready. That's a really hard question to answer. Um.. Maybe, if SIing causes you more pain then it relieves.
To any "normal" person, someone who hasn't been through SIing, what we go is crazy. In a way it is. Causing yourself pain to take away pain. It doesn't make sense. But somewhere along the way, we found out it helps. If someone has never felt it, they can't understand. It's like anything really. If you haven't lived through it, you can't really understand. For now, just tell whom ever it is you are talking about, that you want to stop, but that it is truely an addiction and it's hard. That it isn't going to happen over night. That you are going to mess up, but that it's normal. Well, maybe not say it like that, but along those lines.
You can do anything that you put your mind too. Good luck.
If you ever need to talk, PM me anytime<3
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