I don't know what you say really. Maybe discuss that you don't feel like stopping and see what she says. Just say you never even think about delaying it so what you've been discussing isn't helping you or something?! To be honest, I don't really have a clue. I'm useless with talking to therapists and stuff; I don't tend to talk about anything that bothers me, just sit and hope they won't say anything that will make me feel worse. I always go in with the intention of talking but it never happens. Being honest is probably the best thing to try if you can but that could make a bit of an awkward conversation so maybe tell her in a round-about way. She needs to know if she isn't helping so she can do other things which might help you in other ways and not focus so much on your self harm (which can be counter-productive- I've always found that to trigger me more!).
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