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Ash* · 16-04-2008, 05:08 PM

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Originally Posted by blondiebear

You don't have to say "this is a problem" to them. You've said it to yourself. You need to decide what to do about it.

Have you looked into a support group? People who have the same problems you do? You will be better able to help yourself and have safer people to hang out with.

I've been sober in AA for a while. As I've stayed sober, most of my friends are from there and those people are safe to be with. They're interesting too. We find we have more in common than our problems.

PM me if you want to or need to.

I do need to say it to them. I need my friends.
I'm not actually interesting in being sober to be honest. I just, don't want to use drugs as a crutch kinda thing? If that makes sense, sure it'd be better not to do them at all,but really,I'm not interested in that.

Support groups are more about stopping then controlling I suppose. I'm not after someone to tell me drugs are good,that cokes a great thing to spend my money on,I know it's not. I know they **** people up. I've seen them **** people up. I'm not oblivious to that, I just.

I want to be able to say no from time to time?

16-04-2008, 05:08 PM	#3
Ash* Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Liverpool I am currently:	Quote: Originally Posted by blondiebear You don't have to say "this is a problem" to them. You've said it to yourself. You need to decide what to do about it. Have you looked into a support group? People who have the same problems you do? You will be better able to help yourself and have safer people to hang out with. I've been sober in AA for a while. As I've stayed sober, most of my friends are from there and those people are safe to be with. They're interesting too. We find we have more in common than our problems. PM me if you want to or need to. I do need to say it to them. I need my friends. I'm not actually interesting in being sober to be honest. I just, don't want to use drugs as a crutch kinda thing? If that makes sense, sure it'd be better not to do them at all,but really,I'm not interested in that. Support groups are more about stopping then controlling I suppose. I'm not after someone to tell me drugs are good,that cokes a great thing to spend my money on,I know it's not. I know they ** people up. I've seen them ** people up. I'm not oblivious to that, I just. I want to be able to say no from time to time?
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