hi there *hugs* i just want to say tht ure not alone, ive also been in tht position where i didnt no whether it 'counted as abuse' because the other person/persons were not adults. I think tbh tht if it is still affecting ure life now in some way (which it sounds like it is) it is definately worth confiding in someone about it. It doesnt matter how long ago it happened, the main thing is that u will be able to offload some of this - and youre right, it may not help, but it might
what do you have to lose? I'm not saying it'll be easy, quite the opposite, but with support, u can get through this. Whether its classed as abuse or not is irrelevant, wat is relevant is how ure left feeling about it and how it affects u now.
Please look after yourself
much love
Dani
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