Its her choice, not yours and not anyone elses.
Maybe she picked it up from you, but more than likely she knew about SI way before she knew that you did and so the thoughts would have been in her head way before she found out that you SId.
Its natural to blame yourself when things go wrong, but step back from te situation. If you started cutting, but beforehand youd found out that your friend was cutting, you wouldnt blame her.
Seriously, dont worry being the blame it, because youre not in the slightest. Try and talk to her about her relationship with her husband, and see if she opens up to you. If she knows you cut then chances are she probably wants to talk about it with you.
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