hi, i dont know much about relationships, but if the way yours is going is making you feel bad about urself or hurting u, you should talk to her or something. you don't deserve to feel like that, especially with the person you love. marriage is a big commitment, if it were me i wouldn't want to go into it in while in that position; (i would end up resenting the other person for making me feel that way, personally). have you tried talking to her about it? and does she know that you tend to blame yourself? she probably doesn't want to make u feel that way but when ppl fight i guess they just don't think that much about how it affects the other person. Good luck.
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