I know this is a well old thread but I don't care.
I'm quoting anyway.
Originally Posted by
Strawberry-Gashes
Its overrated anyways!
It makes me sad when people say that =[
Originally Posted by
ickle-duckling
Part of me wants it over and done with so that it's not such a big deal and the other half thinks that I should wait like a sensible person!
Waiting doesn't necessarily make you a sensible person... to be honest whether you wait or not it's likely to be uncomfortable and unlikely to be pleasurable.
Originally Posted by
ceapach
if you do and you have straight sex, i hear it will hurt regardless.
Yeah, seriously.
Less about waiting for the 'right person'. More about waiting until you're horny enough for it not to PAIN you.
Originally Posted by
Tears and Rain
Wasn't great.
But luckily I had a good first kiss.
One of the two isn't bad.
Same xD
I lost it on my 16th birthday.
It wasn't strictly consensual but I ended up having a two and a half year relationship with the person I lost it too. We ended up having some amazing sex.
Basically, sex your first time will hurt. UNLESS you're incredibly wet
or have mastered the art of the sex toy.
Sex can be amazing with someone you care about, but also with a one night stand. It can be sh*t with both too.
Basically, don't rely on the other person to make it good! They're just an extra in the process. I'm talking about first times here, not in general.