it sounds like its come from ridual worry from the rape i'd see an therapist concerning that. it will help you deal with both issues, i would imagine got partner will be very understandign about this isssue. like what was preivoulsy put relationhips are all about sharing things, plus if he's a drinker i'm sure you'll experince it for a lesser reason lol. i look at things very matterof factly. i know this may seem strange but pampers do theses matises sheets that you put on a toddles bed incase of accidents. using them will help with cleaning up. when i work in residnetal care they was known a kyle's and where a real think blanket.
take care
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