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Old 15-02-2008, 01:09 AM   #4
blondiebear
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*holds you tight and cuddles you*

I understand. My flashbacks don't leave me helpless. The emotions are so strong and so scary! I'm remembering the emotions in the flashbacks now because it wasn't safe to feel the emotions then. I'm still having nightmares too. The only thing that has triggered my flashbacks and memories is starting the work in the workbook for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. It has been going on with me since I opened that book in fall 07.

I understand about the housework too. Philip had to do the grocery shopping for weeks. About the only things I was able to do were to clean up after the cat and get to aa meetings.

Too bad that you have a therapy appt. on your birthday.

*fishes some clean tissues out of my pocket and continues to cuddle you*



My husband is my best friend.

In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.

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