Well, this is a tough situation, and I'm not even going to comment on what happened to you - I'm not that great with words. But you wanted advice, so here's my approach.
You want to live together with this guy, and that's a great thing - but I don't think it'll work unless you're honest with him. Of course it's an embarrassing thing, but what is he supposed to think now? He could jump to the conclusion that you don't love him anymore. Maybe if it's too hard to talk about it, you could write him a letter?
As for the whole problem, have you considered getting professional help - therapy? The bed wetting seems like a sign that a part of you is bothered by the past despite what you thought.
Well, just my thoughts on the matter *shrug*
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