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blondiebear · 12-02-2008, 06:51 AM

I'm moody by nature, then when cranky week hits, my husband thinks that PMS stands for Pissed and Moody Susan. Brat. True though.

My sister thinks she's in charge of taking care of our parents. She is welcome to think that. They've told me that I will be in charge for their end of life decisions. More unlady like language. Plus my sister is arguing with me over the financial value of the baby grand piano she learned on vs. the second hand treadle machine where I first learned to sew.
How I will handle that can be described in two words; Professional Appraisal. After I get my sewing machine out of my parents house because I don't have a lot of room here. Maybe it's time to make room.

I'm so glad that friends are the family we choose. And that we can choose our friends.

I'm sorry your sister is making you upset. Please don't physically injure yourself because she is emotionally injuring you. You deserve better than that.
*gives you an understanding hug*

12-02-2008, 06:51 AM	#3
blondiebear Bringing back the lost art of Sewing Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Confusion I am currently:	I'm moody by nature, then when cranky week hits, my husband thinks that PMS stands for Pissed and Moody Susan. Brat. True though. My sister thinks she's in charge of taking care of our parents. She is welcome to think that. They've told me that I will be in charge for their end of life decisions. More unlady like language. Plus my sister is arguing with me over the financial value of the baby grand piano she learned on vs. the second hand treadle machine where I first learned to sew. How I will handle that can be described in two words; Professional Appraisal. After I get my sewing machine out of my parents house because I don't have a lot of room here. Maybe it's time to make room. I'm so glad that friends are the family we choose. And that we can choose our friends. I'm sorry your sister is making you upset. Please don't physically injure yourself because she is emotionally injuring you. You deserve better than that. gives you an understanding hug
	My husband is my best friend. In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.