Hey Danny , and welcome to the RYL :D
I'm glad that you took this step to talk about your SH and to try to stop , don't feel afraid of talking about how you feel here , it's a safe environment where no one judges the other , so don't worry about that .
There are very helpful resources about SH , if you can understand the reasons why you SH and find other options and other coping mechanism that will make it easier to quit SH .
See the links below :
Preaparing to stop [link]
Reasons to stop [link]
When you have urges to hurt yourself , try to distract yourself as much as possible PM if you need to talk i will listen , see the links below they are very helpful :
Fun and distraction Forum [link]
Thr big Distraction list [link]
xhugsx
PM anytime Danny x