This is a hard question to answer. I strongly believe that people who SI for "attention" need real help to. Try not to be angry because she'll just get defensive. Approach the situation as though her SI is as genuine as yours. Tell her you saw and your conserned and offer to listen if she needs to talk. Do what you wish someone would do for you! And if it turns out she's doing it to be "cool" or fashionable or whatever...Then tell her how uncool it really is. Hope I helped some...
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