The chat link is either in the top navigation bar at the top between forum and shop; or at the bottom of the main forum index (you can also see a list of the members currently using chat there). At the moment however, the chat rooms are facing some technical difficulties. It is still open to use however some options that were previously available seem to be broken. However, this problem will be fixed soon and a new chat system will come into place. I hope you enjoy RYL and gain as much support as you need. Take care and feel free to post in this forum again with any questions.... we're all happy to help
Sophie.x