I think that age differences don't always matter, and a couple years is sometimes okay even if one/both people are underage (what's legal and what I consider moral/acceptable aren't always the same thing), like I knew a couple a few years ago who when the started going on, she was I think still 14 (almost 15) and he was 17, but they were a great couple, and if anything she was more mature than he was, so there was nothing creepy about it. But I do think it's kinda creepy for someone to be consistently going after people a few years younger than them who are also underage when it seems like their age is more important than who they actually are, cause then you kinda have to wonder... I also think whether it's okay to be attracted to someone depends more on how old they look than how old they actually are (of course, whether it's okay to pursue it is a different matter, but I just mean you see someone and think they're hot without knowing how old they are), cause if an adult sees a 15 year old who looks like she's in her 20s and thinks she's hot then I don't see anything wrong with that as long as he doesn't try to hit on her or anything once he finds out her age, cause it's not like he thinks kids are hot or anything, whereas I find it kinda creepy when older guys hit on me even though I'm actually 21 because people usually say I look about 14-15, so they probably think I'm about that age but don't care, which is creepy (and I'm not talking like 18-year-olds obviously, I mean like over 40-ish).
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