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blondiebear · 29-12-2007, 03:45 AM

It may never go away. You may just have to accept the pain and it may become a part of you so that it won't be so severe, it will just be part of the noise of your body and heart and soul. Hope that makes sense.

A dear friend of my family died New Year's Eve in 1990 or 91. He helped me get through my teen years. At midnight after i sip my cider and kiss my husband, I raise a glass to my friend in his memory.

*Offers you some tissues*

A major cherishing bear hug to you.

29-12-2007, 03:45 AM	#3
blondiebear Bringing back the lost art of Sewing Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: California Confusion I am currently:	It may never go away. You may just have to accept the pain and it may become a part of you so that it won't be so severe, it will just be part of the noise of your body and heart and soul. Hope that makes sense. A dear friend of my family died New Year's Eve in 1990 or 91. He helped me get through my teen years. At midnight after i sip my cider and kiss my husband, I raise a glass to my friend in his memory. Offers you some tissues A major cherishing bear hug to you. Last edited by blondiebear : 29-12-2007 at 03:46 AM. Reason: forgot something
	My husband is my best friend. In forgiving others, we are not exonerating them. They may not deserve exoneration. Rather, in forgiving others we are giving up our anger over the fact that what happened is not what "should" have happened or that our life is not the way it "should" have been.