I definitely don’t condemn her at all. I know she’s struggling with a lot and I think it just all overwhelmed her and it came out at the wrong target.
When she blocked me on Facebook the first time, I reached out over text and said that I understood she needed some time but I was open to talking whenever she was ready and felt like she wanted to.
She left it a few days, reached out on Instagram so the a very terse “I’m here, say what you want” message.
I asked her for clarity as to what she had meant by some of the things she’d said because I’d like to be able to repair things and move forward with everything cleared up if that’s what she would want as well.
Her reply was that if I thought she would say things like that and mean them, I don’t know her and it was time for her to move on from our friendship.
As you say, Pi, I need to be able to move forward without any real closure or reasons behind what happened. It’s just… sad.
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