couple suggestions we could think of quickly
it is short notice, but could you get a letter of support/recommendation for the surgery from your regular medical human and/or any other treatment providers you have? it is shitty but often they will take the word of other medical humans over ours.
is there a family member or friend you trust who could go with you to help advocate or help you feel safer? if not irl maybe you could video chat with them so they can be "present" in a sense?
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