sorry i didnt mention. its an op in my mouth but hav to be under general for it. ive already decided i'll have a word with the surgeon before hand.
trouble is my mum knew i cut years and years ago. but she doesnt know i still do and esp at the moment with her divorce its just not a good time for her to find out no matter how.
i will try n position my arms right. ive kind of come to terms that the docs will see in the operation but its when im going in or waking up that im worried my mum will notice. she will be upset if i ask her not to come.
if im not allowed to wear it do you think if i speak to the doc/ surgeon before hand n ask that could the take it off once in the room and back on before come out that they will be able or willing to do it? im so scared. its different if they were just scars like they were for a while but not now i been SI ing again. wot do you think?
thanks
becks
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