Hi, I'm so sorry you are going through all this. I note you don't want to leave him, the other option is to work on the relationship. Be honest with him about how you are feeling and ask him to commit to therapy/counselling as you want to work it out. Some say you shouldn't ask someone to change but that goes both ways. He shouldn't try to manipulate you into someone other than he first met. Maybe a period of separation might help, book an air BnB and tell him you want space and then plan meetings in public places to see if you can rekindle what you first felt for each other. Get legal advice so you don't feel rushed into any decision.
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