I'm 35 with an 8 year old and a partner of 11 years. I'm the same i've gone 12 years without relapsing but recently i've been really struggling. As Stellata said I don't think it makes you weak it makes you human. I made the decision to tell my partner after months of keeping my self harm secret. Having someone else know has taken some of the burden but has made it worse in some respects.
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