I promise your are not a failure. It’s ok to admit if something is too much. Maybe you could look into volunteer opportunities that only require a couple of hours a week. That might be a more realistic start. You could try the volunteer Scotland website.
I’m sorry your brother is struggling, but that’s not your fault. You sound like a caring sister and it’s good you are there for him. That’s all you can do and I’m sure he will appreciate it. Is his partner supportive?
I’m sorry you self harmed and I do hope you are taking care of the wound. Is there anything that has helped in the past to stop you self harming?
|