i had the exact same worry with my boyfriend. so i told him that we needed to have a chat about some things (i think he thought i was gonna dump him! =/) and i told him then. i'd told him before that i had used to self harm, but i hadnt told him that it was still active. i spent the entire week before our conversation having panic attacks, not sleeping etc etc i was so convinced i was going to lose him.
but he was so so so amazing. he is a constant tower of strength for me and i dont think i'd be here without him. telling him has easily been one of the best things i've ever done & i don't regret it for a second. if your boyfriend really loves you, then he will love all of you, scars included.
good luck lovely *big cuddles* x
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