Hi, I guess it is difficult but all you can do is try your best.
Maybe she has had a lot of negative attention in the past and so she is very defensive now. If you try to take things slowly with her and show her that you aren't going to just abandon her or be mean then hopefully she will begin to trust you and not behave negatively towards you.
I guess I would look for an opportunity to do something nice for her or help her with something. If she responds negatively then my advice would be to stay really mature about it all and bring it up with her later and explain that you were just trying to be nice and that how she responded hurt your feelings.
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