[mauscee]

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Originally Posted by ShootingForTheStars

I have very similar feelings. I'm unsure if I'm genderfluid, agender or cisfemale and just making a big deal out of nothing but I am dysphoric/self conscious about my chest and use a sports bra as a binder (as I can't get a real one due the fact no-one knows) and would love to cut my hair short.
If you are able to, could you shop for clothes that you want rather than what others think you should wear? For example, to make myself feel a little more masculine, I wear clothes from the 'mens' section. I know this can be hard for some people to do though if you're not allowed to or are not in a situation where it would be okay for you to do so :/
If you are unable to do that than just remember that no matter how you look, what your appearance is like etc., you are no less of a person <3 If you are agender than you are agender and no one can tell you different.
Sorry my advice is crappy but just know your not alone. I recommend empty closets LGBT forum for some more advice <3 x

thank you for your response! i actually have a lot of masc-type clothes as well, alongside the sports-bra thing too. binders aren't really practical for me, not that i've ever owned one, because i have a fairly active job and i think i'd get nervous about wearing it too.
personally my favourite place to buy mens clothes from is charity shirts, because they never seem to question what you're buying anything for there.

i tend to call myself agender because i don't have a word necessarily for what i am but it fits well enough? i've flipped between a number of words before though and an ever changing nature of identity is part of the experience i think.

do you have a link to the thread at all? i didn't look very hard when i was making this post of any lgbt type spaces and i probably should have done. but thank you so much for your response honestly.