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dragonfly · 08-02-2016, 10:11 AM

The impact it would have on my son is a major thing. We don't want him to regress at all and feel that having a new baby would do that because obviously a baby needs a lot more time from me. Time that right now could benefit my son more.

Yes in an ideal world I wouldn't even consider an abortion but this is not an ideal world and is far from it. Tbh I would even be doing this if my partner hadn't asked me to consider it and see down I think he knows this.

We would be entitled to financial help with extra child tax credits and child benefit but I don't want to have to rely on that to know I can afford a new baby. The women that lives below me is soon to have 3 children and that is how they are brought up and supported and really I want more for my family than being stuck in our run down 2 bed flat and struggling for space but not having any money to do better for ourselves.

I know that it was probably stupid of me to post something like this on here but I literally had no one to turn to except my partner which isn't the same.

08-02-2016, 10:11 AM	#3
dragonfly A flower for beauty....A heart for love.... Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: losing myself with no trace of home I am currently:	The impact it would have on my son is a major thing. We don't want him to regress at all and feel that having a new baby would do that because obviously a baby needs a lot more time from me. Time that right now could benefit my son more. Yes in an ideal world I wouldn't even consider an abortion but this is not an ideal world and is far from it. Tbh I would even be doing this if my partner hadn't asked me to consider it and see down I think he knows this. We would be entitled to financial help with extra child tax credits and child benefit but I don't want to have to rely on that to know I can afford a new baby. The women that lives below me is soon to have 3 children and that is how they are brought up and supported and really I want more for my family than being stuck in our run down 2 bed flat and struggling for space but not having any money to do better for ourselves. I know that it was probably stupid of me to post something like this on here but I literally had no one to turn to except my partner which isn't the same.
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