Sometimes all you can do is be the non judging, peaceful presence in someone's life. We all have our own journeys and sometimes you have to step back and let them go through a hard time. That can actually be a greater act of compassion than trying to fix their problem. Sometimes they have to fix their own problems. You are doing nothing wrong and I applaud you for being there for her. If she needs to talk then be there to talk with her. If she needs to cry then let her cry. Part of her suffering will be passed over from her family like you said and that's a process that has to work itself out. As long as you send waves of love and compassion towards her then it will seep in between the gaps of the pain and sadness. You are helping more than you realise by just being that bright, warm and loving presence in her life. You are doing just fine :) Love and light to you and her.
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