I agree with everyone else that you're not being needy, etc and that you're obviously in some genuine pain and are trying to deal with it the only way you know.
I know this might not help, but when I finally told some of my friends about SI-ing, they said they had noticed the scars but didn't want to say anything. I guess I'm just saying that I'm sure they care about you a lot, but I know how hard it can be when you think no one has noticed when you're upset/in pain.
*hugs*
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