Hiya. I agree with morpheus. I'd it hurts-leave.
I was the other woman a few times and on the whole it was easy just to use it for my own needs. Until I found someone I wanted. When he wouldn't leave his wife I realised I couldn't do it anymore.
Keep yr eyes open, yr heart closed and know when to walk away. If you aren't getting what you need out of it, its time to leave.
You're not a terrible human, you're just human :)
Hugs
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