Hey,
Firstly you arent a terrible human being. This kinda things happens a lot. Attraction is attraction regardless.
Some will say to stay well clear and that you're wrecking a marriage already on the rocks but I don't think it's as simple as that.
If he's truly unhappy then fair enough but if he's just after som extra curricular then shame on him.
saying you'd never expect him to leave her may be easy to say now but I guarantee the longer this goes on the more you will want it.
Personally I don't think there is a right or wrong with things like this as they are never black and white. My advice would be to have fun but always try to be mindful of where you are in this relationship. Falling hard at the early stage can be hard for both and even more so when someone is practically unavailable.
It is important you talk and if he refuses then maybe he just wants the sex? It happens (a lot).
If you can talk and things go well then see what happens.
Not great advice but don't beat yourself up over it.
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