Hi. Sorry to hear you've experienced something so traumatic. Everyone probably says that and you also probably know that being curvy did not cause it to happen. It was one of those misfortunes, bad luck I guess and someone's sick mind. You associated this with your weight at the moment but I'm sure it didnt have anythimg to do with it. Would it help if you explored that experience further in therapy?
It might be that now you associate every traumatic or stresfull times with that. And having a new job can be really stresfull. It's really important to fuel your body so it can deal with new challange.
I agree with your fiancee re slim shakes, they are designed ro get you slimmer. Could you try making your own shakea or smootiea? just adding banana, some nuts and berries in your blender would give you a great snack and its not hard to digest
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