I did a 20 week course for EUPD/BPD called STEPPS and there was very little talk of self harm really, there were about 9 of us and we spoke more about feelings and emotions and thoughts rather than actions.
Also, not everyone in my group self harmed, as although many with BPD do self harm, not everyone does.
I did complete STEPPS - but I did not enjoy it or learn much sadly, but that's because of who I am rather than the course/therapy :)
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