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Auror. · 01-01-2015, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Too Shy

That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, when you do need that support and you're asking for help.

I don't know if this would be a possibility, but would she be willing to try to help you work towards talking about some of those things, by helping you to express your feelings through other means of communication to start with? E.g. would you be able to talk about things more by writing them down so that you don't get so mixed up and confused? Or expressing yourself and communicating how things feel with pictures to begin with, and then trying to put some of it into words? (E.g. things like the 'blob cards'?)

Take care, and I hope you are able to get some support. x

Thanks, Liv. I don't think she would be able to do that. She wanted me to write some things down before and I did that but then she wanted me to read it aloud to her, which I was too uncomfortable doing. I am ok with her reading it but then I am really not good at discussing things from there. I would essentially need to just have a laptop or notebook or something and maybe I could write out answers to her questions instead of speaking, but that would also require me time to get thoughts together, and essentially render going pointless.

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Originally Posted by Snow White.

What would happen if you talked about the things you say you're not allowed to talk about?

Please keep holding on xxx

I would have to kill myself. Which I already have to do.

01-01-2015, 01:44 AM	#7
Auror. Camden Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA	Quote: Originally Posted by Too Shy That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, when you do need that support and you're asking for help. I don't know if this would be a possibility, but would she be willing to try to help you work towards talking about some of those things, by helping you to express your feelings through other means of communication to start with? E.g. would you be able to talk about things more by writing them down so that you don't get so mixed up and confused? Or expressing yourself and communicating how things feel with pictures to begin with, and then trying to put some of it into words? (E.g. things like the 'blob cards'?) Take care, and I hope you are able to get some support. x Thanks, Liv. I don't think she would be able to do that. She wanted me to write some things down before and I did that but then she wanted me to read it aloud to her, which I was too uncomfortable doing. I am ok with her reading it but then I am really not good at discussing things from there. I would essentially need to just have a laptop or notebook or something and maybe I could write out answers to her questions instead of speaking, but that would also require me time to get thoughts together, and essentially render going pointless. Quote: Originally Posted by Snow White. What would happen if you talked about the things you say you're not allowed to talk about? Please keep holding on xxx I would have to kill myself. Which I already have to do.
Auror. Camden Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: USA	Please do not give me virtual hugs unless you are only using the hug function on threads. Thanks. You can't always keep it separate. This is happening, this is part of you.