I have been in your exact situation, except for that he actually would hang out with her while I was working, in private. Trust your intuition - you thought something was off, and it obviously is. Google "emotional cheating."
A few years after confronting him on this and demanding that relationship be terminated immediately, he admitted that she was trying to split us up, and that he had feelings for her. I'd like to think we've come a long way since then... he has female friends, I have male friends, and we don't read each others' messages. But if I ever had that nagging suspicion again, I would definitely investigate.
I know this hurts so much... but it will only hurt more if you don't put an end to this now. You're his wife, the woman he chose to start a family with. She's an ex. The math should be simple for him.
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