I identify myself as bisexual and people mainly found out through me being in a same sex relationship, but since that ended last year the new people I've met at university do not know about my sexuality. I've never "come out" but if people ask or it comes up in conversation, I will share it with them if I feel they won't judge me, but I'm not completely open about it. As above, my sexuality is a personal thing to me and I don't feel that everyone has to know.
Although I was in a same sex relationship, in the back of my mind I want to marry the opposite sex. For me I think it's about children and being able to have my own, as that's a big thing for me. But I am still physically and emotionally attracted to women as I am men so I feel I am bisexual.
It's your choice - don't feel you have to tell people, but equally don't feel you have to keep it a secret. I hope that helps.
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