Have you asked what traits it was they diagnosed you on? I don't know about NPD but there are something like 256 combinations of BPD, so I'm guessing there's a similar amount for NPD (and you don't have to fulfill them all) and I think 'tendencies' means that you have some aspects, but not enough to meet to full criteria.
I think the fact that you care enough to be upset about it, means that you must have a good heart.
Also, as far as I know, it's pretty common to have traits of more than one PD.
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