Dear 13 year old muah,
13 is going to be a very tough year for you, but do not and I repeat do not start hurting yourself (if you start you won't stop for many years and will live in complete misery.) When you lose your grandmother don't fall into your grief and hide away in your room holding all that pain inside. When you lose your friend to suicide please don't give up on yourself and think that your life isn't worth living. Look your in for a very hard ride with many more downs than ups but don't let it control your life. Also don't drown your sorrows in food (trust me you regret it later and than have to deal with even more self image issues which lead to bigger problems.) Talk to people about how your feeling and make an effort to face your fears because if you don't your in for a long long road of misery and depression. Your dad is a horrible person and don't waste your time trying to make him care about you (in the end he still won't love you and will make you hate yourself, trust me he is not worth your tears.) (Also as a side note do not stay friends with people who treat you like a doormat and learn to stand up for yourself, it's better to have no friends than to stay friends with people who bring you down.)
Onto the more trivial matters, do not bleach your hair blonde (biggest hair mistake ever.) Embrace your inner nerd and stop with the goth get up, it so does not work on you. Also for the love of god please do not wear so much eyeliner you look like a raccoon cause trust me you will cringe looking back on old photos.
From your awesome 24 year old self
p.s. We end up being quite the potty mouth, even sailors would blush ;)
Our mom becomes one of our best friends (so don't be such a biotch to her.)
Also Sarcasm will become your new best friend so embrace it.
Oh and one last thing your bisexual Surprise!
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